Okay, I’ve been thinking about this the last couple of days. Where do you go to find like minded individuals? So I’m not really close with most of my friends I went to school with anymore. Even when I was still doing theatre, I had friends that I would hang out with all the time. Now that I’m no longer in NY and now reside in Georgia, I don’t have any close friends or like minded individuals who are into the same things as me. Honestly so much has changed over the years.
I’m married and have my own family. I’m not doing most of the things I did in my twenties, that I truly enjoyed. I really feel like I’ve become a introvert over the years. Now I must say, that I do hang out with my sisters. We do plan sister days, and although it’s great and we have lots of fun, their are things that I enjoy that my sisters are just not into. It’s like pulling teeth to get people to participate in things, which ultimately just feels like a waste of time, because if they’re not going to be into it, then why bother.
I need to find some outgoing bubbly folks who have similar interests as me. The only problem is, I’m not sure where to start. Where do I search or look? It’s funny because back in 2003 there was this website called going.com, I absolutely loved it. It was a great place to meet new people and setup hangouts based on your interests and events you signed up for. You could look and find anything that was happening in your area. It was really cool. I wish the website still existed.
So again I’m baffled at how I begin this journey with finding like minded individuals like myself. I’m drawing complete blanks as to where I should start first. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? If you have any ideas feel free to leave a comment.
Written by : Kiyana411